#295
Some people tend to cause confusion in our life due to their (seemingly) inconsistent behaviour (that doesn’t match our expectations of their behaviour?!), whether that’s done intentionally or unintentionally.
What’s important to remember is that we each experience life differently. While some people might care more about their appearance and exploring the physical world, others might prioritise their work and diving deep into the realm of ideas, and so on.
When there’s confusion in our life caused by someone other than us, it is still up to us to make sense of it.
“Is this a matter of miscommunication, or perhaps a signal that our life paths are going in two different directions?” is one way to look at it.
Confusion is merely an invitation to investigate – don’t go down the rabbit hole of complaining or reminiscing about “the good old times” for too long, it won’t get you anywhere. Anywhere far, that is!