Karmic Relationships: Learning Through Tough Love

20 Oct

Earth is a school for your soul — or you know — your consciousness. Every lifetime is an opportunity for you to do some further research!

That’s why the South Node in your natal birth chart points to the data you have already “unlocked” as part of your previous lifetime learning path.

And your North Node shows you what type of research you need to do in your current lifetime to accomplish your mission: your soul purpose!

Earth is a school, but we’re not here to learn alone.

We experience karmic relationships, so that we can understand our own value and learn how to set healthy boundaries with others.

Karmic people are our Self-Worth Teachers.

We settle for the love we believe we deserve: if a relationship does NOT make us happy, it’s likely a karmic relationship.

If a relationship brings the WORST in us, it’s a karmic relationship.

Karmic relationships can also be trauma bonds: relationships developed over shared trauma. The toxic patterns feel so familiar, it’s easy to confuse them for true love.

Ultimately, life’s about self-growth and becoming a better version of yourself daily ✨

KARMIC OR TWIN FLAME?

Both karmic and twin flame connections will make our life more difficult at first. They are both growth teachers that set off the process of your “Ego shattering” and self-healing on a deeper level.

Here’s how you can separate the two:

Karmic relationships will encourage you to stay the same, because they thrive in co-dependency. So the more you move towards authenticity, the more you will get “attacked” for separating yourself from the pack. They will reveal to you what your life would look like if you stop growing and releasing your potential in the world!
Twin Flames will open your eyes to the potential that’s within you really fast, show you the best case scenario of life and then take a step back, so that you can begin to do the work on your own (that’s the only way we can grow). They can’t do the inner work for you and sometimes your soul contracts will be just about triggering a remembrance before you are separated again.

If you begin to experience “withdrawal” symptoms towards another human being in your most profound seasons of growth, this is a sign of a deeply wounded inner child who craves saving.

If you can give to yourself that which you crave from others (remember that we are all adults now, not children), that is a sign you’re healing the right way and advancing your growth + consciousness 👏

What comes next is aligning with your soul tribe who will meet you at your new “operational level” in the world!